How 'Heavy Work' Can Help Your Child Stay Calm: The Sensory Secret to Emotional Regulation

How 'Heavy Work' Can Help Your Child Stay Calm: The Sensory Secret to Emotional Regulation

After reading this article, you will:

  1. Understand the relationship between supporting your child's sensory needs and their emotional regulation.
  2. Explore the role of the proprioceptive and vestibular systems in sensory processing.
  3. Discover the concept of "heavy work" and how it can regulate the nervous system.
  4. Learn about the Whole Body Activities in The Galaxy Guide to Running My Rocket that cater to sensory needs and support emotional regulation.
  5. Gain practical strategies for incorporating sensory activities into your child's daily routine and creating sensory-friendly environments.


When children are overwhelmed by big feelings such as frustration, anxiety or excitement, their nervous system can feel like it is in overdrive. As parents, educators and therapists, it can be difficult to know how to help. However, there is one powerful and often underused strategy that can make a huge difference: supporting sensory needs.

In this article, we will explore how sensory processing affects emotional regulation and why ‘heavy work’ – a type of sensory input – is a game-changer in calming children’s nervous systems. We will also explain how The Galaxy Guide to Running My Rocket incorporates these strategies into playful and practical tools for home, school and therapy.

Why Sensory Processing Matters for Emotional Regulation

Occupational therapists often view behaviour through what is called a ‘sensory lens’. This means considering how a child takes in, processes and responds to sensory information from their environment and how this affects their behaviour and emotional state.

While most people are familiar with the five main senses – sight, sound, smell, taste and touch – there are three lesser-known but critical sensory systems that play a major role in regulation:

  • Proprioception: The sense of body awareness and effort, such as knowing where your limbs are without looking
  • Vestibular: The sense of movement, balance and spatial orientation
  • Interoception: The sense of internal body signals, such as hunger, thirst or the need to use the toilet

What Is ‘Heavy Work’ and How Can It Help Big Emotions?

‘Heavy work’ refers to activities that involve deep pressure, resistance or effortful movement. These activities provide sensory input that can either calm or energise the nervous system, depending on the child’s individual needs.

Examples of heavy work include pushing or pulling heavy objects, climbing, jumping or engaging in rough-and-tumble play. The sensory input gained through these actions helps children reach an optimal level of alertness, enabling them to better regulate their emotions.

Using Whole Body Activities to Support Emotional Regulation

The Galaxy Guide to Running My Rocket includes a series of activities called The Charging Challenges. These activities are designed to meet children’s sensory needs by combining vestibular and proprioceptive input. They provide opportunities for movement, balance and coordination that help regulate and calm the nervous system.

By regularly engaging in these whole body activities, children develop body awareness, improve self-regulation and gain positive ways to channel their emotions.

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The Galaxy Guide to Running My Rocket stands out among other emotional regulation tools with its unique rocket journey concept, emphasis on internal needs, and focus on promoting co-regulation towards self-regulation in a neurodiverse-affirming way. By utilising this resource, children gain a deeper understanding of their emotions and develop the skills needed to navigate them successfully, leading to enhanced emotional well-being.

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References:

  • Dunn, W. (2001). The sensations of everyday life: Empirical, theoretical, and pragmatic considerations. American Journal of Occupational Therapy, 55(6), 608-620.
  • Lane, S. J., Reynolds, S., & Dumenci, L. (2019). Sensory over-responsivity and emotional regulation in children with autism spectrum disorders. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 49(3), 1101-1113.
  • Schaaf, R. C., & Mailloux, Z. (2015). Clinician's Guide for Implementing Ayres Sensory Integration®: Promoting Participation for Children With Autism. Western Psychological Services.
  • Smith, J. A., & Mancil, G. R. (2010). Sensory processing in children with autism spectrum disorders and developmental disabilities. Journal of Early Intervention, 32(4), 286-297.

Meet the Authors

Bella Martini

Bella Martini

Senior Paediatric Occupational Therapist

Co-creator of Ready Rocket Resources with a passion for helping children develop essential skills through engaging, evidence-based resources.

Tash O'Connor

Tash O'Connor

Senior Paediatric Occupational Therapist

Co-creator of Ready Rocket Resources dedicated to creating practical tools that support children's emotional regulation and development.